Learning from life's experiences....an unending process

On the road completing 59 years of existence.....and I keep learning lessons.

No one is forced or by the judiciary made to learn from living. It has to be within you! Your life and destiny are all pre written. What you do forcibly with stubbornness is also included. So beware, do not try and challenge the ultimate.

I learn from life...which is a premise. Logically is a way of thought by humans, while the course destiny or fate take is everything but that!

Civil society is man made...artificial. It is an outcome of Human psychological study.All rules are manmade. Science is the principle and Human psychology is the base. All institutions and relations are conceived. A common denominator is preconceived but all things are judged in "normal' human behavioral conditions. A study by our highly experienced and knowledgeable ancestors has brought about  " A civilized society " with a set of norms and rules.

Things change and so do situations. Relevances re-arise.....contexts change and so do situations.

Acceptance of ground reality is a must and practicality should be the Human base.Life has no places for dreams....which are human wishes..they can be biased or from the semi consciousness...

What one sows .....one reaps.Truth will always prevail and justice may be earlier denied but ultimately executed.My experience is of "pure blessings". Thanking the creator for everyday is like a person working for a "boss" and thanking  the maker for not having Kicked you out !!

If an individual does not have the capacity or intelligence to understand....then to expect things to happen all of a sudden....it is sheer HOPE ! Expecting miracles is having too much of HOPE ..."all the time"

Each person is " Unique ". Making people think the way you do is foolish..... trying to make them understand is logical and sensible.....Expecting all to react according to your expectations....is absolutely frustrating.

You try...you hope... you pray you get +ve results...... that is all !!

Remembering Nana ( M A Vairale)

Nana(Dad) as we knew him

~C M Vairale

It's been twenty seven
since he went to heaven
I remember today
just like Yesterday

He died too quick
no time to perform a trick
Would he have lived a few months more
his sixtieth was just at the door

But alas time passes and heals
though your dear one's time steals
as I remember the past it feels
in front of fate and destiny one kneels.

So with sweet memories and happiness
This day I do today bless
for having given a life by dad
all the love, friends and experiences I had..

Truly Shaken

Truly Shaken
~ Chandrashekhar M Vairale

Switching on the Tablet
with no inkling of the news
Reading the message bullets
just made me blow the fuse

Quakes all over the North east
Like a sudden escape of a beast
Fears of all magnitudes came to mind
whether from below ,above or hind

Disaster spelling it's own alphabet
perish,hurt and death were all met
towers,buildings,avalanches all came down
Temples,Historical edifices, also of the crown

Locals ,tourists,young and old
weak,strong,meek and also the bold
Race religion and colour no bar
buses,trucks,vehicles slung afar

Out went lights,bridges and roads
Bricks,walls,roofs,poles, wooden boards
The earth behaved as if the Sky had fallen
Merry making happy faces all sullen

The tremors went on and on from below the earth
the shivers in humans souls aplenty, no dearth
Tears flowed and so did blood everywhere
People running helter skelter, here and there

May humanity rise to this Nature's fury
Go on doing all one can without query
Learning from this a lesson till death
Disaster comes unannounced with stealth

So enjoy what you have each n every moment
don't be satirical, cynical and just comment
Nature has kept you in her kind care
So enjoy,live , don't just challenge and dare.

She came thus...

She came thus...

~ C M Vairale

A surprise by my youngest
put us all to a test
I want to get married
The boy is chosen, not to be worried

Lo behold there 2 before her
An elder sister and a brother
The planets and stars say now
Or else it will be late and how

Parents meet and decide to twine
a marriage ceremony no dinner wine
Basics with minimum carbon footprint
last date available no cards to print

All and in gear the wife and daughters
Off to the market to do all that matters
How now, holy cow where is the money
so there she come driving it's not funny

A list for the purchases and making
shopping in the heat,ready for baking
But a wedding awaits who cares
to plan,shop,order time no one spares

She came thus.. many days later
the wedding of her daughter to cater
keeping the family concern alive
Or else life's lost and won't thrive.

Question

Question

~ C M Vairale

Why is the inquisitive one
How is the scientist speaking
When is the restless being
What is the surprised human
Which is the doubtful person

Why and when is an the eternal query
How and why a persisting doubt
When and How is always in introspect
Why and What always a mystery
Why and Which answers to reason

Instead of enjoying the answers to life
we waste our time and energy in questions
Instead of utilising what we 'have'
we while away our acumen in what we don't
One life, so little time
One self so little else

Priorities decided by the "so Sigh iety"
everything in comparison and no originality
All for a show and ego trip
one's happiness lost in other's grip
The real world never ever wandered
all in outer space is squandered

False religions,caste ,creed and Egos
Wrong ethics,morals and priority logos
The real friend and family forgotten
the forced marriage institution rotten
It should be thus, this and there
no reasons and truth stern anywhere

Love,Kindness,compassion,care gone for a toss
With all false wants and demands at a loss
Male chauvinism and humanity at a cross
Proving to the artificial manmade world ....
who is the Boss

It is tough

It is tough 

~~C M Vairale

To go against the Wave of Human habit
To dance,skip,walk and not hop like a rabbit
To not follow age old ways and rituals
To change and have modern norms for nuptials

Ages have gone by and the world moves on
Yet society wants you to follow bygone
In our caste this and our religion that
Just following blindly and copying pit pat

Are there any shoulds & musts to get married
Should one do it at any cost and n not be worried
Is the guest list binding to the parent's invite
with no compassion, care in the relative light

Spending more than required really
showing off the world,your's truly
Finances all tight and short of coming
isn't a serious simple marriage becoming

Make this, give that on their feet lay your hat
Are we not one team, both to bowl and bat?
Uncaring relatives and jealous relations
making snide remarks and muttering insinuations

The occasion is that of happiness and joy
Not that of conniving exploitation and ploy
The families grow and extend themselves
All are human ot wolves, foxes and elves

Sacred be and stay this man made institution
Not a reason to fight, die and plead execution
May the new world and new born be given hope
And not make the couple's parents difficult to cope.

Inspect,in retrospect

Inspect,in retrospect
~C M Vairale

Born a Male
has it's own tale
to enjoy,succeed and not fail
Sitting with comfort like in a rail

Male chauvinism all around
high in the air,never on ground
Right to do whatever and choose
Never afraid of a social noose

As a child you grow
later you come to know
girls are your whim n fancy
be it Anne , Mary or Nancy

As you mature so does need
enticing you in a life of greed
Coming of age you want satisfaction
Thinking of ways to relieve one's tension

Society has a proper institution
Avoiding the road to prostitution
Marriage is the vehicle of carriage
Legal for the weak,strong or average

Choose a girl of your choice to mate
Whether you love, like or hate
Both tied in the social bonding
the road unknown ,high,low or winding

Doesn't the girl have a choice
Why be tied in by a parental vice
Like the man she too would want a virgin
Not like a car in 'no entry' to barge in

Having that thought in mind always
I never let my mind travel it's ways
A rude shock though awaited
when my own partner was baited

Surely no poetic justice was made
Should have I in my life have strayed?
Life can be rude and so can society
Which has no love ,consideration or pity

How can the human lure with vice
in to greed,money,wealth and avarice?
Is there no human without easy virtue
leading this life, proving to be true?

Many a Man and Woman self centred
Spoil the social fabric torn and ruptured
Compassion,Empathy,Consideration unseen
Not bothered,daunted, selfish and Mean.