Karma, the theory that puts doubts to rest

I had this experience of a friend losing his wife very early and suddenly!He was in a lot of shock,anger,pain,doubt and being the thinking type and a studious person it bothered him no end.....Why Me ? What have I done bad?Why was I the chosen one? etc...
I do not blame any human for a reaction of this kind.One goes to such extent that he / she would rage aginst the deities in his own "Gods" whom he worships sveryday.There will always be questions. Let me ask you "Why does a hunter choose a Tiger or a Lion rather than a Dog for a hunt?""why do the strongest and most able face defying situations?"Calamities may fall on many at random(according to us) but what ever is planned by the Creator is beyond our imagination or capacity...but there are people who have found answers! "Karma"
http://www.hirabhaithakkar.net/tribute1.htm or the next one http://www.hirabhaithakkar.net/ will tell you what I want to convey.
Anyway ,things came to quite a rest when My friend came across the thoughts by this man and the inquisitiveness calmed down.
I know that people question you in funny ways.....All your formal education doesn't teach you what vedic philosophy does.Neither is there any answer in any of the sciences available to the common man.To think in a bigger and vast scope is not an average ability. LIFE, LIVING and LIVELIHOOD are 3 different things and each swallows the other therefore all is lost...Life is Lost in Living and Living in Livelihood.One forgets to Live...what a waste!.
http://wanabo.com/living
more later....