Reactions Extempore...

Haven't written for a long time......

Month's go by and still faster are the weeks,days,hours..... and the one says ..."life is so short"
I think we are so busy with our own calculations that we do not see what really is !!

Anecdotes,incidents,occasions,happenings carry on unfolding in front of our eyes ...and we do not give them time,attention,thought.... we are busy with machines...cellphones,laptops and desktops,TV sets, iPod,etc....

Are we living a ''Life"?

Some things which are now indisputable after my 56 yrs. ......

We are born without 'OUR OWN' control whatsoever.

Our Life is well planned, Our script pre-written,Our contacts pre-destined,Our marriage-whether or not is unknown and our relatives not in our control...

Where, what ,when ,how  etc....are intrigue and adventure ....saying that "I" can decide is always a hypothetical argument.

Real Friends are not merely - contacts, acquaintanceship,heard,seen,read about people ... they are true real 'family' and they are not by marriage...

Relatives need not always be on 'your' side. Ultimately they are 'relative'.

Love and faith are 'truly blind' and "unqualified".

Support always comes from the most unexpected and unknown.

The nearest person is the one you haven't even dreamed  of.

The 'best' moments are always a surprise.

Sad and Happy is a reference to context 'only'.

Hurt comes from the dearest and Happiness comes from the Furthest.

We always blame something rather than asking our own 'self' truly !

Addiction is our way of saying ...... nothing happens,so what,not really !

We always feel blessed at the most 'rare' moments.

"Compassion can't be learnt and neither can Empathy"

You are what you have been made,you can only do the best with what you have been given.

We cannot force a situation as we can only 'act'... reactions are not in your control...

I hope I have communicated and reached you ...those who read....and care to 'Reason'.

Gratitude and love ...words for Chandrakant Kale by Anand Modak

मित्रांनो , २३ आगस्ट २०१२ रोजी शब्दवेध या आमच्या संस्थेनं रौप्यमहोत्सवी वर्षात यशस्वी पदार्पण केलंय याचा आनंद माझे मित्र शब्दवेध चे सर्वेसर्वा
श्री चंद्रकांत काळे आणि शब्दवेध च्या सर्व सातही म्हणजे अमृतगाथा ,प्रीतरंग , साजणवेळा , शेवंतीच बन, आख्यान तुकोबाराय , नाटक्याचे तारे आणि काव्येर कथा 
या कार्यक्रमांच्या निर्मितीत सप्रेम आणि सक्रीय सहभाग देणारे सर्व गायक/गायिका/ अभिवाचक/अभिवाचिका/निवेदक 

/निवेदिका/वादक/ तंत्रज्ञ यांचाही फार मोलाचा वाटा आहे..तसाच आम्हाला
वेळोवेळी सर्वतोपरी पाठींबा देणा-या हितचिंतकांचा आणि आमच्या प्रस्तुतीवर निरतिशय प्रेम करणाऱ्या रसिक मायबापांचा आहे. या सर्व प्रयोगांची संकल्पना,संहिता, दिग्दर्शन, अभिवाचन ,आणि गायन असा संपूर्ण
भार यशस्वीपणे पेलणारा आमचा ( एरवी तो हे विशेषण ज्यांच्या काव्य निर्मितीवर त्याने निर्मिती केली त्यांच्या बाबतीत तो वापरतो पण आज मी ते अतिशय अभिमानानं त्याला उद्देशून वापरतोय..होय तोच) प्रतिभावंत कलाकार
चंद्रकांत काळे याच्याविषयी माझी कृतज्ञता आणि आदर व्यक्त करणे हेही या लिखाणाचे प्रयोजन...शब्दवेध च्या सातातल्या पहिल्या पाच म्हणजे अमृतगाथा ,प्रीतरंग , साजणवेळा , शेवंतीच बन, आख्यान तुकोबाराय या पाच प्रस्तुतींमध्ये
संगीतकार म्हणून मला जे जे प्रयोग करायला मिळाले ...त्या निर्मितीतील प्रक्रियांमध्ये जो आनंद आणि समाधान मिळाले ते मला शब्दात कधीच सांगता येणार नाही..सिर्फ रूह से मेहसूस करनेवाली बात है..प्रत्येक वेळी चंद्रकांत बरोबर काम करतांना
नवनव्या आव्हानांना सामोरे जाणे आणि त्याच्यातल्या प्रतिभावंताचे समाधान होईपर्यंत कवितेला वेगवेगळ्या पद्धातीने भिडत जाऊन गाभ्यापर्यंत पोहोचणे यातला थ्रील मी ...मी अनुभवलंय ...आणि दरवेळा रिता होता होता समृद्ध होता गेलोय...
माझ्यावर असा विश्वास टाकणारा माझा हा प्रतिभावंत मित्र ...त्याच्या माझ्या सृजनात्मक रुणानुबंधांचा मला फार अभिमान वाटतो...अगदी महानिर्वाण ,बदकांचे गुपित , तीन पैश्याचा तमाशा, पडघम ,तुमचे अमुचे गाणे , जळळी तुझी प्रीत हि संगीतमय
नाटके आणि शब्दवेध द्वारा उपरनिर्देशित कलाकृती या सगळ्या प्रवासात त्याची साथ फार मोलाची राहिलीये ...नव्या संकल्पना ,नव्या संहिता नवे संगीत आणि नवे सादरीकरण असा सतत अभिजात नवतेचा ध्यास घेऊन कार्यरत राहिलेल्या याप्रतिभावंताच कार्य मला फार मोलाच वाटत ..कारण लोकप्रियता मिळवण्यासाठी सवंग कार्यक्रमांची आणि तीच तीच पान पिसून नवा डाव मांड णा-या चलाखी ऐवजी त्याकडे पाठ फिरवून स्वत:ला आवडणारी अभिरुचीपूर्ण अभिजात निर्मित्तीच
त्यानं संकल्पन केलं आणि अनंत अडचणींना तोंड देत दरवेळी प्रत्यक्षात आणलं ..( हे लिहिणं आणि वाचणं हि फार सोप्पं आहे पण करणं महाकठीण ...) म्हणून मला हे लिहितांना खूप आनंद होतोय ...कि चंदू तुसी ग्रेट हो ...थ्री चीअर्स फोर चंद्रकांत काळे आणि शब्दवेध
हिप हिप हुर्र्रे ... हिप हिप हुर्र्रे ... हिप हिप हुर्र्रे ...

Children no more.....

After 3 decades of marriage one has this wonderful experience of  being a father to grown ups.
It is an exhilarating feeling. You may ask why and rightly so. Exhilarating means according to the dictionary..

1. (n.) The act of enlivening the spirits; the act of making glad or cheerful; a gladdening.
2. (n.) The state of being enlivened or cheerful.

Why glad because finally they have all grown into 'Adults' (21+) Cheerful because you have no worries about how,what,when,why? You brought them into this world our of your will and choice.You successfully gave them care,love,home,name,education and helped stand on their feet as self supporting beings.

 In the 'West', they have their kids @home only up to High school and rightly so,push them in to the water so to say or the 'Sea of Life' so that they learn to survive and achieve what they can unto their abilities.

Here we surely take things too far.

We even care about what they study,where they work,whom and how they marry,who they befriend etc...etc... I agree that  children need support after birth to learn hold their heads.Once they do,we help them to stand  and see that they are capable enough to walk on their own.We make them strong  by giving them our finger for moral support so that they gain confidence in themselves. They learn to run,jump,etc... all on their own once you have given them the basics.

Each individual once grown up has to have his/her own choice unless they ask for advice.Again, that is all you can do, the choice is finally their's.You can only try to give them 'the best to your ability'.

Self improvement and growth is different in each individual,nothing can be standardized.Expecting too much is a trait of the human as like 'avarice' or even over expectation.Thought of being and the Ability to be able to are 2 different things.Social status and trend is another great threat to individual development.

All this just to say that I am very clear about what I am doing.Done my duty and don't dream for others.I accept Life,Fate and Destiny!Doesn't mean I sit Idle...lol.

So Now with 3 Adult kids I have put behind me a major milestone...

It will be your turn too!

A child is born and there is celebration ,joy and a responsibility.


If you are born in a family with all the requisites for a normal life things are quite easy.If you have a good back-up like,property,salary,savings,parental support-- you are one of the very few in the world i.e. 2%. What?? Yes..... you do not value it...for it is there for you, served on a platter so to say!


When you grow along with a child who is in turn born to you.... what's your take?


When your Parents grow old ....what do you do? Do you care as much and care for them with responsibility? You grew with what they fed you, learned with the education they parted,Saw what they wished you should and couldn't on your own.Do you care for them with all their shortcomings as they cared for you? Do you help them walk as they helped you with your first steps? Do you put a smile on their face as they have striven? Please see what you do to your  kids,what your parents did for you and then what you should do for them!


Are you waiting for them (parent/s) to die? So that according to Hindu or Indian law  you will be heirs to their property and wealth?Have you tried to save and make some  wealth of your own? Are they a burden or hindrance in your lives? 


You may be in good health and relationships today but one never knows what destiny and fate has for us.Do not be too overconfident.Do not take things for granted!


One's approach to life should be all encompassing.One should feel and value his/her blessedness.Look around and you shall find!Look behind and you will appreciate.''I saw a child cry because he had no shoes,till he saw a boy without feet''.


The time,love ,energy and money your parents have spent for you is incomparable and invaluable !!Have a broad mind and a big heart.Have compassion,love,value for those who are responsible for what you are and where you are.


Greet them, meet them, care for them,put a smile on their face and pride in their eyes.Make them happy for having you as their child and blessed that they have not wronged.Did they ever say you were a burden? Did they not let you have your ways? Did they not want o see you happy and satisfied?  


What's your duty towards them? or is it only the Rights you have from them?

Baba Amte’s Inspirational quotes..

1. I believe in leading series of Lives in one life.
2. God brings no luck to idle hands.
3. We utilize all sorts of wastes except waste of time.
4. Add life to years rather than adding years to life.
5. God gave us pain so we could feel the tenderness.
6. Action speaks louder than words.
7. Learn the art of living by leaping and not by limping.
8. Love alone can resurrect a man in agony.
9. Work builds, charity destroys.
10. Give them a chance not charity.
11. Happiness dies when it is not shared.
12. The greatest joy comes in life when you invest in others.
13. To live for others is the most fertile pleasure in the world.
14. Let your sympathy find expression through love backed by action.
15. Youth is he who plods through victory and defeat alike.
16. Hope this world will listen to the deafening sound of my silence…
17. Joy in Anandwan is more infectious than the disease itself.
18. Anandwan-Here the memories drive through pain towards enlightenment…
19. Anandwan-A mat spread for creative humanity in one of the darkest & loneliest corner of the globe…
20. The smile of a man who is oppressed or a child who is suffering is what I covet more than any award.
21. To me, God is truth & love, God is ethics & morality, God is fearlessness, God is the course of light & life & yet above & beyond, he is conscience...
22. National integration can not be legislated through an act in parliament.
23. Words and principles are not enough to take the place of deeds.
24. Attempt defining both by words and deeds.
25. Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash.
26. Ration your words but nourish your deeds with dedication, determination, & devotion.
27. The most frightening disease is not of losing your limbs, but losing your strength to feel kindness & compassion for other human beings.
28. I have experienced the drowsiness of every autumn & passion of every spring; hence I don’t seek dust in shame and loneliness.
29. Tree is a symbol of liberty... (A pole of liberty)... Every bird occupying its twigs is messenger of love, faith, equality, & courage & every fluttering leaf is a national flag.
30. We can not carry the struggle of life with the voice of reason alone. Enduring reason of love must come to our struggle in the life (which requires a tender heart & tough mind.)
31. Pledge yourself to honesty amidst the glittering nets spun around you by falsehood.
32. You may forget with whom you laughed, but you will never forget with whom you wept.
33. I always pledged to have more concern for others than control of others.
34. All services to be truly effective and of permanent values must be wrought in love.

www.takeheartindia.org/baba_quotes.htm

Surely Times are changing !

The happening thing in India for me is... ''Satyamevajayate'"

Justice Dharmadhikari said it all !

This topic exposes humanity at large .... all over the GLOBE !

A human is human only when he/she is qualified..... sad...self defeating!!

"We do not want to accept the real truth about us"

We have a false EGO !! We fool others and finally ourselves!

We are totally hypocritical !!!

Time will keep on proceeding .... but the Human isn't!! The human needs to look with several glasses and see the perspectives! The human needs to accept the follies! The Human needs to be all enveloping and stop being 'selfish' and 'self centered'.

I fully appreciate the work being done by Mr Amir Khan... he has shown the courage to be a true 'Human'.
( and yes,I have not been paid by anyone to say so)

Sympathy,Empathy,Brotherhood,Love,Care,Giving,Helping,and so on and so forth..... That makes us Humans or else we are just social animals, with animal instinct and selfish motive and bloated EGO !!!

Enough said.....

Times are changing,,,,,,,,, 

Sharing....Where is India Going?

I am not really an authourity to write about such a topic.... but I would like to share my thoughts with the Suleka Community!

Having been born in a shanty chawl due to my father's poverty, whatever I am and will be till the day I die will be on the 'plus' side.I have no biases therefore about 'ego and economic status'.Due to the background I come from, due to my father and sister, I have had many a chance to choose and enjoy the benefits they could have led me to.  I had dreamt of a career in the IFS(Indian Foreign Service) but alas, fate and destiny had something else in mind.So here I sit with my task and duties, looking at what has happened here ,in India,right in front of my eyes.

Politics during my childhood and Politicians for that matter had a better and higher place in Society. The Films(now Bollywod) was a low esteem career.Business was for those with contacts,Money and Hard work. Education was a 'star on your shoulder' field. lawyers were most revered and Doctors were Gods.Engineers,Scientists,Pilots,etc... were a very Intelligent and God Blessed Lot!

The dynamics have changed greatly! Everything is topsy turvy!Priorities and importances have changed,Reverences has been altered,Values and Respect has shifted,Perspectives altered due to the approach by their own doings!!

Wealth, Money,Power has made' man '; inhuman,insensitive and immoral!We have no good IDOLS to follow.No one to respect and No profession is unquestionable to follow.Politics is everywhere alongwith avarice.Grab what you can get and don't worry about the fellow humans...there are too many of them around ! lol !

We have made ourselves worthless by over producing!!!! Humans aren't rare therefore of the least value.'Pure Economics' Need and supply!! The Figures are mind boggling and so therfore is the destruction by and of Humankind!

Man is digging his own grave...... ...Here we are trying to have a new President and there they are fighting about Priministerial Candidates!!! Oh what a laugh!

We pay tax and yet they keep taxing our brains and giving us stress and leading us all to all kinds of attacks !!!!

Can't we people think,act,behave??? Where is our great culture and history?Do we have morals,ethics,reason??

I and not trying to be pessimistic but I want us all to wake up  and awaken others! I want all of us to start a true,real,sincere,heartfelt movement....so that mankind will start looking at things with a 'Proper' perspective and lead towards a 'good' path of peace,progress and posterity'

Amir Khan is intelligent and sincere enough doing his bit! What are 'we' doing? Is the empathy in humankind dead?Do we have no ''DUTY"? Are we only going to fight for our "RIGHTS" ??

Look at your Nation! Do it for our national pride!

So Vivekananda was so right! -Arise, Awake and stop not till the goal is reached....

Where is the road we are walking on, taking us to?

Of the world and people...

This is like always totally extempore ! NEWS is no good from any direction and seems the deterioration will only increase.I feel blessed not because of this fact but because I will not be able to see the effects of what is happening today!Why? not because I will die tomorrow but by the time I will ,The peak would be quite in sight!

I am not being pessimistic cause I can't lie.I think young and always promote the youth!Looking around though 'People' want to continue ruling till the D-day and be stubborn and selfish!Ironically no one carries even his/her own clothes to 'Heaven or Hell' ALL are 'Naked' there.They also are Penniless,Landless, Beauty less, Alone,Only carrying their Guilt!No Fooling,Belying,Betraying, High/Hard handedness,Clout,Background,Support.....

Shamelessly the human carries on till he/she enters his/her grave.Fright doesn't belong to the Naked and neither does Shame.Only the clean are frightened of getting dirtied!The weak afraid of Muscle!The Poor of the Wealthy,The Weak of the Healthy......But all that turns to a farce when all have to 'Finally' leave!!!

Killing fellow beings only shows how you Humans are still ANIMALS and not " the human" God, Christ or Allah made!

Man made money and wealth... when nothing belongs to him/her... It is all Imaginative. the 'real wealth' is all around us all and we all are trying to be around 'US' ...lol what a laugh!

NATURE is called Mother !!! and who is caring for HER??

Man cannot replace the 'Creator' who so ever it,he,she is !!

Fooling the world all the time only helps to make you fool yourself!!!

Materialistic Dreams and Possessions... can they help you to go to Paradise or attain Moksha? Is temporary acquisition of something materialistic The be all and end all of our ''LIFE"?

Respect and regard to fellow humans is a must if one wants to 'be alive' in reality. Do we life for ourselves or others? This doesn't mean one should live 'howsoever' one wants but according to the prevalent ethics and norms or else '' leave'' that environment and go "back to nature" where you live the Law of Nature and not of the "man made society!!! "

we all have a right to choose ..... No one owns the world personally...It is a universal possession!

So please leave your EGO ....what the human feels is he is  the " Eternal Governing Ostensible"


Be Human, be Humble ,be Humorous , be Healthy !!!

Living LIFE with total acceptance!

"When I take a long look at my life, as though from outside, it does not appear particularly happy. Yet I am even less justified in calling it unhappy, despite all its mistakes. After all, it is foolish to keep probing for happiness or unhappiness, for it seems to me it would be hard to exchange the unhappiest days of my life for all the happy ones. If what matters in a person’s existence is to accept the inevitable consciously, to taste the good and bad to the full and to make for oneself a more individual, unaccidental and inward destiny alongside one’s external fate, then my life has been neither empty nor worthless. Even if, as it is decreed by the gods, fate has inexorably trod over my external existence as it does with everyone, my inner life has been of my own making . I deserve its sweetness and bitterness and accept full responsibility for it." ~ Hermann Hesse, Gertrude

I feel blessed, I never look at what others have and I don't, but I try and learn to appreciate what I have and have had everyday and in my past ! The 'given present' is so worthy of our attention that if one is so engrossed in it, one would never ever be unhappy with life.I always say to people don't just look ahead.... look behind you! ''there are so many who do not have what you do"

As I always quote from the hoarding Vijay Merchant had put up a s a president of the Society for Handicapped...

It showed a boy weeping , sitting on a broken wall... and a slogan below..

which said...'' I cried because I had no shoes, until I saw a boy without feet"

Amen ! Ameen ! Thathastu!

Thom Hartmann & Director Tom Shadyac: I Am